It can be concerning when your child doesn’t respond to their name, especially in situations where safety or social interaction is important. This is a common challenge for many children with developmental delays, including autism, but it’s also a skill that can be improved with consistent practice and the right strategies.

One of the most effective ways to begin is by creating positive associations with their name. When your child hears their name and looks toward you, even briefly, immediately offer praise, a smile, or a small reward like a favorite toy or snack. Keep these interactions fun and low-pressure by turning them into playful games like peek-a-boo or hide-and-seek, which naturally encourage engagement.

It’s also helpful to practice in quiet, distraction-free environments at first, gradually increasing difficulty as your child’s skills improve. Pairing their name with something positive—such as calling their name right before offering a preferred item—can help reinforce the connection.

Be sure to use a calm, clear voice, and get down to your child’s level so they can see your face. If they don’t respond at first, avoid repeating their name multiple times; instead, gently guide their attention and then reward the behavior. Consistency is key and celebrating even the smallest successes—like a glance or pause—can go a long way.

If challenges persist, working with an ABA therapist can provide individualized support and strategies tailored to your child’s needs. At our clinic, we’re here to help you and your child build essential communication skills like responding to their name, creating a strong foundation for learning, connection, and safety.