It can be incredibly distressing to see your child engage in self-injurious behaviors such as hitting or biting themselves. At our clinic, we understand that these behaviors are often a form of communication, especially for children who have difficulty expressing their needs verbally. Self-injury may occur due to frustration, sensory needs, a desire for attention, or as a way to escape a demand or situation.

The first step is to observe the behavior closely—when does it happen, what happens right before, and how do others typically respond? This information helps identify the function of the behavior. Once we understand why the behavior is occurring, we can teach safer, more appropriate ways for your child to communicate or cope.

Strategies may include teaching functional communication (such as using words, pictures, or gestures), providing sensory alternatives, or adjusting demands to make tasks more manageable. Most importantly, try to remain calm, ensure your child is safe, and seek professional support.

ABA therapy can offer individualized intervention plans that reduce self-injury while building your child’s ability to express themselves in positive, healthy ways. You’re not alone—and change is possible with the right tools and guidance.