When a child bites, it can be upsetting, painful, and confusing for parents and caregivers. Biting is a behavior that often stems from frustration, communication difficulties, sensory needs, or a desire to get attention. It’s important to remember that biting, while serious, is usually not meant to be aggressive in the way adults might interpret it—it’s often a child’s way of expressing a need when they don’t yet have better tools.

At our clinic, we focus on identifying why the biting is happening through careful observation, and then teaching the child a safer, more appropriate way to meet that need. If a child bites to get attention, for example, we work on teaching them to use gestures, words, or other communication strategies to ask for attention instead. If biting is sensory seeking, we might provide alternative activities like chewing toys or deep pressure exercises to meet that need safely.

When biting occurs, it’s important to respond calmly but firmly: keep reactions low-key to avoid unintentionally reinforcing the behavior and guide the child to use a replacement skill instead. Consistency is key—every time the child attempts to communicate or get sensory input appropriately, we make sure they are praised or rewarded right away. It’s also crucial to supervise closely during situations when biting is more likely and to intervene early when signs of frustration or overstimulation appear.

Over time, and with the right support, children can learn that they have better, more effective ways to get what they need. Our team is here to work with families to develop individualized strategies that reduce biting and build positive communication and coping skills, making home life safer, calmer, and happier for everyone.